Intermezzo by Sally Rooney is a story about family, relationships, grief and all that matters in life.
Sally Rooney is prolific and her prose beautiful. Her stream of consciousness writing style makes the book an enjoyable read.
In Intermezzo , thirty-two year old Peter Koubek and twenty-two year old Ivan Koubek are brothers from Kildare. Peter, a successful and competent Dublin lawyer, seemingly unassailable. Ivan, a competitive chess player has been hailed as the chess prodigy. They have recently lost their father. After their parents had divorced, they were brought up by their Slovak father who had migrated there in the eighties. Their Irish mother, Christine O’Donoghue has since remarried. After their dad’s passing, Peter, sociable and charming, is medicating himself to sleep. He has some remorse that he never really got to know his father. He is struggling to manage his relationships with two very different women, Sylvia and Naomi. He remains close with Sylvia, his first love. An accident years ago has left her with great physical pain and she no longer wants to be intimately close with Peter. She has asked Peter to leave her and date other women. He is seeing Naomi, the twenty-two year old college student who is free spirited and regards life as one long joke. Ivan is an antithesis to Peter. He is socially awkward and is working part-time in data analysis. At a chess event, he meets Margaret , an arts- programme director, divorced and has a turbulent past. In the early weeks of his bereavement, he is attracted to Margaret who is beautiful and kind. Soon their lives become intensely intertwined.
Peter feels that he needs to check in on Ivan as an older brother, so he telephones Ivan with a faint hope that the latter does not answer the phone.
‘ A purring mechanical tone tells him the call is ringing while he sits on the sofa unlacing his shoes. Home from work late, Tuesday night, awkward time to call, and never texted beorehand, almost as if , yes, hoping no one will answer. Duty discharged in that case. Disphenhydramine with a glass of red wine, see what people are saying on the internet. Fall asleep with the lights on for an hour or two if he’s lucky. Wake up again and try something stronger. Watch in claustrophobic dread the passing of hours, scorched feeling in his eyelids blinking. Three in the morning, four another Xanax, open a new browser tab to type out : insomnia psychosis. psychosis average age of onset.can’t sleep going insane. About to hang up when with a dropping sound the call connects and the voice of his brother is saying : Hello? Oddly normal the way he says that when answering the phone. Makes him sound so adult and reasonable.’
Ivan tells Peter that Christine has been texting him about Alexei the dog which he has left with her. Ivan’s voice is ‘flat, affectless, and yet communicating at the same time somehow a wary distrust.’
Peter invites Ivan for lunch. Ivan totally forgets about his Sunday lunch date with his brother as he makes a trip to see Margaret in Leitrim. The two brothers finally meet for lunch. As anticipated, Peter asks Ivan about the friend he is seeing.When Ivan lets slip about the woman he likes and that it is complicated as she has this ex-husband whom she is separated from. Peter is alarmed that she is thirty-six years old, and he remarks,
‘You’re twenty-two, you’re hardly out of college, you don’t even have a job. I’m not trying to be disparaging, but do you think a normal woman of her age would want to hang around with someone in your situation? ‘
After some exchange, Ivan storms off and from then onwards, he blocks Peter’s number preventing him from any further communication.
Growing up, Peter was protective of Ivan until the time Peter left home for college. What happened to Peter after he graduated from university is not clear to Ivan. When Ivan was a child they were good together but when Ivan got to the age of sixteen, seventeen, they started getting into arguments, fights, about politics, history, whatever.
It is apparent that both brothers have a lot in common. They are both mourning for their father’s death and they ‘both wanted their lives to consist of winning all the time‘.
‘No one ever wants to lose. And yet for both Peter and Ivan, this particular feeling has perhaps been more important ,more intense than for other people: the desire to win all the time, and also the naïve youthful belief that it would be possible to live such a life, now soured by experience.’
After their lunch, the lingering bitterness between them is now reaching a point of seemingly no return. This is a story about estranged relationship between two brothers who are very different.
Sally Rooney is undeniably one young writer who can engage us in stories about mundane living and the interpersonal relationships. She is undeniably gifted in crafting ordinary characters and dialogues. In Intermezzo, the author also weaves in the story discussions about social issues such as housing crisis in Dublin, monetary power dynamics, religion, existentialism, social media and societal demands.
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