Human relations
are definitely complex and fragile as each one of us has our own fears and
insecurities. Not everyone possesses the same sense of humour and sensibilities
and we are inclined to form our views and perceptions based on our predispositions and what we think we know.
You may think
that the society is oppressive when you are not in the position to negotiate
what you really want, you feel life is insufferable. If you think you are a victim or that luck is never on your
side, your brains start to emit all the negative responses and they will
eventually become who you are. In the long run you will very likely become
resentful and bitter. Life can never be perfect because that is life. Perhaps
happiness is devoid of meaning if you do not choose to be happy.
‘Eleanor had been to country
houses, to public school and Italy, and she knew many liberal families and
people who’d flourished in the 1960s: painters, novelist, lecturers, young
people called Candia, Emma,Hasper,Lucy,India, and grown-ups called
Edward,Caroline,Francis,Douglas and Lady Luckham. Her mother was a friend of
the Queen Mother, and when Ma’am turned up in her Bentley the local kids
gathered around the car and cheered. One day Eleanor had to rush away from
rehearsal because she was required by her mother to make up the numbers at a
lunch for the Queen Mother. The voices and language of those people reminded me
of Enid Blyton, and Bunter and Jennings, of nurseries and nannies and prep
school, a world of total security that I’d thought existed only in books. They
lacked all understanding of how much more than anyone else they had. I was
frightened of their confidence, education,status, money, and I was beginning to
see how important they were.’
Karim’s main rival for Eleanor’s
affection is a man called Heater.
He is the local road-sweeper, ‘a
grossly fat and ugly sixteen-stone Scot in a donkey jacket whom Eleanor had
taken up three years ago as a cause.’
Karim’s Indian
father, Haroon is described as small, elegant and handsome with delicate hands
and manners. His English mother is described as ‘ a plump and unphysical woman
with a pale round face and kind brown eyes.’ His dad gets to know Eva, who is
into Oriental philosophy and there are guru gigs where he has been invited to
speak on one or two aspects of Oriental philosophy and he is well received and became known as the Buddha of Suburbia.
When Karim accompanies his dad to Eva’s house in Beckenham , not only the
display of money impresses Karim,
he is seduced by sensuality and intellectualism.
‘ It
wasn’t far, about four miles, to the Kays’, but Dad would never have go there
without me. I knew all the streets
and every bus route.
Eva is into
mysticism and she is ambitious, a social climber.
‘In the old days, when we were
an ordinary suburban family, this pretentious and snobbish side of Eva amused
Dad and me. And it has seemed, for a time, to be in retreat –perhaps because
Dad was its grateful recipient. But now the show-off quotient was increasing
daily. It was impossible to ignore. The problem was ,Eva was not unsuccessful;
she was not ignored by London once she started her assault. She was climbing
ever higher, day by day. It was fantastic, the number of lunches, suppers,
dinners, picnics, parties, receptions, champagne breakfasts, openings, closings, first nights, last nights and late nights these London people went to
. They never stopped eating or talking or looking at people performing. As Eva
started to take London, coving forward over the foreign fields of Islington,
Chiswick and Wandsworth inch by inch, party by party, contact by contact, Dad
thoroughly enjoyed himself. But he wouldn’t recognize how important
it all was to Eva.’
Apart from Karim, Haroon, Eva and Eleanor, there are other colourful characters who have also had a part in and
caring for the susceptibility of the human heart.
Karim's coming of age experience. The themes of the book span identity issues faced by immigrants, multiculturalism, oriental mysticism, coming of age, social class, success, suburbia and the city. Hanif Kureishi’s writing is punctuated with wry humour. The story is about how we connect with people we love and it does not matter where you come from and where you settle in, life is about navigating human relations, managing the vulnerability of human desires.
Incidentally the book has been made into a four-part drama series by the BBC in 1993 and the song featured in the programme is by David Bowie whose 1993 soundtrack album bears the same name as well.
Karim's coming of age experience. The themes of the book span identity issues faced by immigrants, multiculturalism, oriental mysticism, coming of age, social class, success, suburbia and the city. Hanif Kureishi’s writing is punctuated with wry humour. The story is about how we connect with people we love and it does not matter where you come from and where you settle in, life is about navigating human relations, managing the vulnerability of human desires.
Incidentally the book has been made into a four-part drama series by the BBC in 1993 and the song featured in the programme is by David Bowie whose 1993 soundtrack album bears the same name as well.
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